Author: Tanya

  • Drain-free, tape-free

    Drain-free, tape-free

    I finally had the last drain removed last week.  This was so monumental.  The drains were causing so much discomfort with movement.  I have a high-threshold for pain, but something about having devices under my skin is apparently not acceptable to my body.  Of course the drains were in for a longer period than anticipated… Read more

  • “How are you doing?”

    “How are you doing?”

    I guess it is time for an update.  Surgically, the incisions appear to be healing without complication.  The drains are doing their thing and are likely to be out next week. Pathology officially came back AND MY SENTINEL NODES WERE CLEAR!  Yes, my oncologist is going to take a big sigh when I tell her… Read more

  • Mastectomy done

    Mastectomy done

    Phase 1 of Operation: Killer Tiddies is complete.  I celebrated my brother’s birthday by having him sit in the waiting room for however many hours (sorry Al) while my murderous mammies were severed from my torso. The preliminary news is that there wasn’t any sign of lymph node involvement which hopefully means that the cancer… Read more

  • Ignored

    I don’t even really know how to write this post. I don’t really know if it will even matter since it doesn’t seem that many people pay attention. I specifically asked on social media that my birthday roll by unrecognized. Not because I’m vain and refuse to accept the aging process, not because I’m secretly… Read more

  • Surgical Update

    Surgery will be July 19 for a double mastectomy and sentinel lymph nodes without reconstruction.  Estimated downtime is 5-6 weeks provided I have no complications.  After I heal up and see how I like (or don’t like) living the life of no boobs, I can revisit the plastic surgeon in 6 months and discuss either… Read more

  • A past due post.  A lame post

    A past due post.  A lame post

    Repost from Facebook -June 18 The universe decided to hand me a shit sandwich for my upcoming 50th birthday, and with the swirl of emotions that goes with it.  Fortunately, the most predominant is “fuck this bullshit and fuck pink ribbons too. I’ve got breast cancer again I’m told only a few people so far,… Read more